| Location | Colchester |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Undisclosed |
| Date of Birth | 11/12/1971 |
| Date of Death | 08/03/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,681 since 24/04/2009 |
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Robert Offord became ill in January 2009 and sadly lost his fight for life in march 2009 it was a
tragic shock for all that knew and loved him.
He was a proud father to Millie aged 8 and Charlie just aged 1 and was the other half to
Stephanie.
Robert was an only child to Ann and Ron and they raised him to be a great and loving person, He
also had Grandparents Joyce and Den and an Aunt called Jan who he loved all very much and who in
turn loved him.
From a young age he went in to printing and stayed at the same firm for 15 years he was their no1
man and they often called him "THE MASTER" he always put 100% in to everything he did in life and
will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him.
Robert loved his sports, mainly watching them on T.V but he did like to play the odd game of golf
and went on a few society days with the lads, he was also a massive West Ham fan and had been since
they won the cup in 1980.
Robert will always be in the minds and hearts of everyone he once knew and as the saying goes he
will be "Gone but not forgotten"
Still in my thoughts everyday, Christmas is going to be really hard this year, its just so sad.
Have lots to tell you, am getting married....yes bob again!!! lol
Wish you was here to celebrate with us, but i know you wont be far away :o)
Tomorrow is Colin Fry night, hope you come through xxxxx
THINKING OF YOU
REALLY MISSING YOU TO DAY SO WISH WE COULD CHAT SO MANY QUESTIONS...MISS YOU LOADS AND YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY HEART XX
xxx
I've thought about you a lot the last few days, I still can't believe your not here anymore, I miss you so much. I find myself looking over at one of your pictures on the side and i just break down in tears and there's nothing i can do because i can't change the past and what happened but i just wish i could see you one last time just so i know your okay and i would give everything i have just to get one of your cuddles, I really miss you, i really miss us, we had so many good times together and i can't handle knowing their will be no more. I sometimes think about the future and its so hard knowing you wont be part of that knowing Charlie will never see his dad, i remember when Millie was younger and how hurt she was not having her dad in her life and i never ever thought that would happen to Charlie to, you always told me you would be here for us and you would never leave but this evil world took you far away, I'm soo sorry it had to be you x
I love you so much and always will and one day we will be us again x
Its been a while now but you are never far from our thoughts, Mark has got 2 vip tickets to Chelsea v Westham, we both said if only Bob was here but we no your be there in spirt. Im going to go on your behalf and I will take some bubbles and blow them on your behalf. Love you so much and miss u everyday, hope you are happy and at peace x loving and missing you loads xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Still missing you like crazy, still think your gonna turn up one day!
Theres a guy at Joes school, one of the new parents of the kids that have just started this term.....he is the spit of you! When i see him, i just have to stare at him, stupid i know, i just wish it was u!!!
I have bought tickets for me and Steph to go and see that famous Medium Colin Fry in Southend in a couple of weeks, I know its a long shot but im keeping everything crossed hoping that you come through, i believe there is an afterlife, so im hoping you come through and give Steph a msg, even if its just to say your ok - I think it would give everyone hope that we will see you again when we leave this life, what am i saying, i know we will see you again, theres no doubt about that babe.
Until then my precious, xxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello Bob wish I could talk to you properly. This week I went to hospital to have an injection in my thumb joint. It was sooo painful I thought I was going to pass out and decided I would never ever have it done again. But then I thought of how you had suffered and if it could bring you back to us I would have my thumb joint injected every day for the rest of my life. It would be worth it just so you could see your children grow up and have the long life you so deserved. love you always.
I've found today really hard, i miss you soo much
When you were ill i was to scared to hug you coz you were in soo much pain and all i keep thinking is how much i wish i had. You were my everything Bob and I'm finding it so hard without you in my life, i wish this pain would go away xxx
7 months ago at this time was the last time i spoke to you i keep running that night through my head over and over again wishing i had stayed with you at the hospital for the night then maybe you wouldn't of had to face what came the next day all alone, you must of been so scared.
I miss you soooo much and these last 7 months i have tried to keep strong but it really hurts knowing your no longer here where you belong.
I have so many questions running through my head and don't have the answers for any of them the biggest one being 'WHY YOU???' you never did anything wrong, you were loved by everyone who ever met you you was a fantastic Partner a fantastic Dad a fantastic Son and a fantastic Friend.
Sometimes i feel like I'm living a nightmare but i just can't seem to wake up from it i just want it all to stop and for things to be back how they were.
I keep thinking if i look hard enough for you when I'm out i will one day see you walking down the road just like you were going to get a paper or something, but i never do.
I can't believe this is the end, i don't want us to end we were supposed to be together forever, we had plans for our future and i can't and don't want to do them on my own, i need you
I love you so much x
These past few weeks i cant get you out of my head, not that i didnt think of you everyday before but now its almost like i think of u at every minute, going through everything from you getting ill to the day you died. For weeks running upto us losing you before you went into hospital i remember calling Steph numerous times and asking if you had been to the Drs and to go and get seen to but u didnt want to worry anyone, u kept saying the bug would pass and you would be better after a rest, but u wasnt getting better. The amount of times Steph said 'look lets just go to the hospital' but you wouldnt have any of it, she begged you but you just wanted to get better at home. I so wish we had just dragged you there kicking and screaming, saying that tho what good would it have done as they didnt do anything for you when you was there, they let you down, they let us all down.
I know your not coming back but i cant get my head around that, your in my thoughts all the time and then it hits me that your gone and i feel such sadness and always end up in tears, i cant help it, i know whenever i think of you i will always cry because it shouldnt have happened it wasnt your time and we all really miss you and i know that we always will miss you.
If i could do absoultely anything to bring you back i would i just wish that was a possibility.
Always on my mind, forever in my heart
Love you lots
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
TIME!!
TIME GOES BY AND IT STILL HURTS...THE CALL FROM ANN GOES OVER AND OVER IN MY HEAD BEEN TOLD...I SAID NO PLEASE BEFORE SHE EVEN SAID IT AS IF I KNEW WHAT WAS COMING BUT COULDNT STOP IT...I COULDNT BREATH AND THATS STILL HOW IT FEELS WHEN I RECALL THAT PHONE CALL...OR YOU...ITS STILL SO HARD TO TAKEN IN...I WANT TO SMILE MORE WHEN I THINK OF YOU NOT CRY..COZ YOU HAD A GREAT LIFE AND WAS A GREAT PERSON...
I HOPE HEAVEN IS ALL WE BELIEVE AND YOU ARE WITH FAMILY.. MISS YOU AND LOVE U ALWAYS XX
JEN X
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